Reading Alan’s chart individually helped me through some very tough times because as I stated earlier, I did not know I was in the past life. It was only when reading it that I became aware of his personality and was enlightened by the memory of the past life we had together. For some reason it was triggered by reading his astrological natal chart. Of course, not everyone can do this because I believe one has to be on a certain vibration before it can be done, but a good astrologer should be able to do this for you or to give you some information which may help you.
With my own children it was a tremendous assistance and I cannot thank astrology enough because I thought my son was so selfish – he only thought of himself. Yet astrology taught me that he had come to be selfish after a number of incarnations in Buddhist monasteries where he had nothing to call his own except a begging bowl. It was such a revelation to me to see this in his chart.
Yes I was judgmental at the time, but astrology enabled me to change that thinking about my son and changed our relationship long term. It stopped me being judgmental! Now when I meet someone I know is going to be in my life for a while, I ask for their birth details and study their compatibility with me. I can then see where the difficult areas are and where conflict can occur. It certainly helps me to work through past-life energy if there is any there. Even with the daughter I gave away for adoption I can find out each year what energy she is working through as she gets older. Of course I do not know whether she is doing it or not, but it does help to see what she has chosen to learn and work through.