The Path – Continued

We are all like this. We have been programmed to fear change. Friends and family who are frightened they might lose us as we move on put doubt into our minds so that we are tortured as to what to do. Usually when this happens, we stop ourselves from fulfilling our destiny. “What do you want to do that for?” is the first thing usually said by others. Then come the questions with a negative overtone. Very rarely does anyone say “Great!”

Recently at a meeting I attended, one of the participants – a woman I know quite well – pointed out to me that she would have more time to socialize now as she had left her marriage. Intuitively I had known for some time that she was not happy in her marriage. In fact, it had aged her terribly. I was so pleased for her and told her so. She informed me that I was the only one who was positive about it. Everyone else had questioned why she had left. Nobody had supported her or even asked why she was leaving. She was the “Scarlet Woman” as far as they were concerned. It did not matter that she was unhappy; she should stay!

Our path in life is to try to be happy. We cannot be happy, though, if things in our life are making us unhappy. A few months later this woman has taken ten years off her age, she vibrates with energy, she is sleeping soundly (something she never used to do), and is happy for the first time in her life. Is it wrong for her to want to be happy? I think not!

For me, I was terrified of going to New Zealand because I had never been there before and I had been stripped of all I owned – including my business bank account – when my first husband took it all out of the bank without my permission. I was terrified, but I should not have been.


Going Back in Time – Continued

I believe that the energy known as God put us on this earth plane to be together in some way, not necessarily in marriage, for marriage – I believe – is man-made. It is a choice many make. I even made it. For some it is the same-sex partner, but it is nice to share our lives with someone. Most of us long for that “special one,” and some of us find that person, but we are all meant to be together with someone. We do not understand each other though, and only when we understand that we are all different – can function as different yet still be together – can we really be happy with someone else.

In the beginning, Alan could not understand why I did not want to do what he wanted to do at times and why I did things differently, for example, why I did not like the foods he liked. Like me, he had to learn that we are all different, and to be different does not mean that we are weird or crazy in any way. We are different. As one person said to me the other day, “Men think through their penis,” and this is true; men are designed that way. After being a man for a day (written about in a previous blog), I understand exactly where a man is coming from. Women want the princess gown, the prince charming, the kisses, cuddles, affection, and the fairy tale! I still like to be kissed and cuddled by Alan. For him it is something he does not crave, but he knows it pleases me. It is a part of who I am, and he tries very hard to please me and do that function even if in his makeup it is not the same feeling as I have. He enjoys it, but it is not an in-built need like it is with me and most women.


Our Life Purpose – Final Words

It also amazes me how many people are in a job they hate, yet rather than open a new door they continue on in the job they are in and eventually have health problems because they are not at ease in their career. Rather than open a door to begin to study a new career if they have not done so already (and most have not), they plod along until eventually they create dis-ease, then full blown disease within themselves. I have actually seen people die because they would not make the changes they were capable of, all due to fear.

I am finally living my life’s purpose. I must say also that you are never too old to change. I had a 67-year old friend who had always wanted to do healing. Her astrological chart showed this was her true destiny. She had been a mother and grandmother but never worked. One day she came to classes I was teaching and learned how to heal. She found that she had (as I felt) a natural talent for healing and began using it part time. It gave her so much happiness to do this, and I know it kept her young and healthy. She is now almost 90 and still healing. I know she will make it to 100 and still be healing.

Are you unhappy in your career or job? Are you doing what you came here to do? You do not have to give up your job or career to open a new door. This can be done casually or part time in study and in working it (before one builds up a clientele) and then give up the old work one is doing. In closing, I wish to say that Maitreya, my teacher, taught me the fact that happiness is ours to create. Spirit does not do this for us – we do it. When we find our life purpose, we find our passion, and then one is truly happy. So many people never find their passion or their life destiny, and it is such a shame because they bring themselves around for another incarnation just as I did. I am so glad I found what mine is and that I am fulfilling it. Not only that, but I am truly happy in what I do. So many people tell me that I work so hard, but I do not feel that I do. It is not work for me; it is my true destiny and passion.


I have mentioned in many communications about humankind each having a different vibration. I write to you now about the subject of beauty and of it being within and not without. Many souls on the earth plane are concerned about their beauty – whether they have the right body, a beautiful figure, too many facial lines etc. – and this applies to men as well as women. They often cannot see the beauty that is within, the beauty of the soul.

When you are at peace and happy with yourself, then one does not concern oneself with mundane thinking. The body that you have is only on loan for this lifetime and it is one you have chosen. The shape of your body, face, and appearance is all due to genetic programming from many members of your family. Your soul, however, is not genetic but is your own, created from your own lessons, experiences, and growth in the spiritual realms. When your soul is at peace, you are at peace. This manifests as a beautiful glow around the body. Your energy is golden; it does not matter what you “look like.” Those who look at you see the face of God.


Why Do You Lie to Yourself?

Why do you lie to yourself? You say you are happy in your marriage, work, or private life, yet you are not. You are in denial and, while you are in denial, you cannot raise your vibration. In order to raise the vibration of one’s energy, one needs to be honest with oneself. You can lie to yourself, but you cannot lie to the Ultimate Being, or whatever you know God to be.

So many of you are living in fear. You stay in relationships, jobs, marriages, because of fear. You live a lie. You cannot be happy in a life when you are not at peace. To be at peace means that you need to be honest with yourself and do not deny your happiness. You say to yourself “Yes, I am happy,” but when we in the spiritual realms look at your life, you are not. Be honest with yourself. Look at your life. If you have stress in your life, if you are in a relationship in which you are not comfortable or happy, if you have a fear of loneliness, poverty, or any other negative emotion, you are not at peace. How can you be if your life is not happy?

Be true to yourself. First of all admit where you are unhappy. Second, determine to do something about it. Third, face the fear. Often the fear is nothing and, when it is confronted, it disappears. Be true to yourself. Stop lying to yourself. Start the path to raising your vibration, to being happy and at peace. You can be you know!