I was so serious I must have seemed so straight-laced to Alan in the beginning. I did laugh, of course, but it was few and far between. My ex-husband had tried to make me laugh at times, but even he was not really a laughing person. But every now and again something funny would pop out of his mouth. My teacher, Maitreya, told me that, in the world of Spirit where we go after we die, they are constantly laughing, and many souls who pass over after death cannot share this laughter for quite some time after they pass because they are just not used to it. They have to gradually come into the presence of that world and then rest and recover for some time in Spirit before they go back to the way they were before their incarnation.
Over the years of working with Maitreya, quite often he has had a better humor than me. Recently in a channeling where he was working through me, he claimed the Fifth Amendment which made everyone laugh when he did not want to talk about something! I am now learning to laugh more and to be more humorous. He told me that he would help me on that Independence Day a few weeks ago, and someone even said they could see him with me (you can always tell he is there because my eyes change). I must say it was a really humorous day and one I will not forget for a long time. I have heard of people who are sick, watching funny DVD’s and TV shows because the doctors who treat them believe in the fact that laughter can heal. I do know one thing: everyone left in an up-mood that day, and one or two of them are still talking about the fun we had and the laughter we shared on the day. If you are a serious person, try not to be. Laugh as much as you can. it will really change your life and make for a much better person.