Going Back in Time – Continued

The reason I say “whatever love is,” is because nobody can really define love. For women it is romantic, poetic, and a fairy tale. Very few men – perhaps 80% of men – really do not “love.” Men are designed to procreate, and for them the lovey dovey of “love” is sometimes non-existent. They just need to release, and love for them is not important. What is important is the release, and many men will use women to get that release. Women, of course, love the touching, holding, kissing etc. and do not realize that often the man they are with does not feel the same. Some men will say anything to get that release.

Neither Alan nor I are under the influence of whatever love is. We have a great personal friendship – an intimate relationship – but there is also an energy between the two of us which holds us together. Alan is the most wonderful, caring man I could ever wish for. My ex-husband was a caring man, but his heart was closed off, and it was purely a business relationship with occasional personal intimacy included. Although I had a lot of past-life energy to work out with Alan, it never took away that special feeling we have together. He is the most wonderful husband – attentive, caring, affectionate, and understanding. More than anything, he understands the work I do and has joined with me in it. I have a friend, brother, and lover all rolled into one, and sometimes even someone to advise me because I do not always have Maitreya near me to talk to about things, and it helps to be able to share with someone one’s ambitions and ideas. Astrologically also we are destined to be together. I believe Spirit saved the best until last, but a friend of mine said it is because Margaret has grown up and does not waste energy any more on mundane emotional issues. Whatever it is it works, and I know deep within myself that there is no other husband or other man for me in my life.




Often your enemies on the earth plane are your friends from the realms of the spiritual world who have come to help you to learn lessons. Instead of hating these people, love them because they give you the greatest opportunity to grow and to be free of your karma.

So many souls have hate in their hearts because people have hurt them or upset them. Often that hate is never dealt with and will be taken forward incarnation after incarnation until finally, in one incarnation, it will manifest as illness. Every soul who comes into your life comes to teach you something. The person may be your mother, father, family member, or someone close, but no matter what they did, they did it to help you. Instead of feeling hate, turn that hate into love. Thank the person for being there to help you. Often the person who becomes your enemy – the person you come to hate or despise – is your best friend in the spiritual realms. Chosen by you to help you to grow, they have agreed to be a part of your life to do this.

When you can let go of your hate for all those who have hurt you and replace it with thanks and love for the opportunities they have given you to grow and learn, then you become such a great soul. Let go of your anger, hatred, and bad feelings. Be thankful that someone cared enough to help you. That in itself is true friendship.


A True Friend

A true friend is a very rare treasure indeed. So many friendships break up because of friends and their truth within that friendship. What do I mean by that? Friends also have come to assist us to move into a higher energy, either by showing us a new way of doing things, by giving us words of encouragement or words of warning, or comment which we ourselves get upset over.

I remember a girlfriend telling me once she did not like my skirt. I loved my skirt, but she felt it was too short and too revealing. I took offence to this statement. How dare she say that? It was my skirt; I could wear it whether she liked it or not. Of course many years later, I realized I should not have given any energy to the situation and certainly should not have closed my friendship with her over such an incident. However, I did and I cannot tell you how much I regretted losing her friendship over the years I was not with her. But of course the damage was done. I still miss that friend today. I did try once at reconciliation, but my friend did not want to know. What a shame!

Shortly after this incident with the friend though, I got a new job and was asked if I would wear a longer skirt to work, as the skirt I had on (the same one the friend had commented about) was too short for the kind of job I was in. Was my friend trying to warn me beforehand? I know she was, and had I heeded her words would not have had to be told twice. However my Self came in and took offence at her words – it was very reactionary – and got rid of the person who had created the situation. It never even consulted my Higher Self. It just did a good job of cutting her out of my life.