So what do you do if you feel like you need to change your patterns? I would suggest that the first thing you do is to find an astrologer who can help you understand the patterns which need changing. You may not realize it but you may have already worked a lot of them out. Many on the metaphysical path have done a lot of work on themselves, so there actually may not be as much as you think you need to do. Once you know the patterns, seek out people to help you: past-life therapists, people who work with flower essences, and other forms of healing. Recognize that it will not happen overnight and do be prepared to pay for the services. It is not a charitable thing. The people who will assist you will be professional people – experts in their field.
Remember that at our center we have past-life therapists who work with Skype, so the therapy sessions can be done from a distance, even overseas. Make a decision to do it and see it through. Many people start the process and then do not complete it because the Self gets to them and persuades them that other things are important, or the cost is too high, or other reasons which are excuses, not reasons. You are the one who has to make the decision; nobody else can make that decision for you.
Most people think there is an easy way out. There is not. It is a lifetime commitment, but the reward is so worth it. All those who work with you from our center will be 100% committed to you and will do all they can to help you. However, it is you who has to make the final decision and commitment. We cannot do it for you. Each person is different and will need different ways of assistance because not everyone is the same. Changing patterns is not easy, but it can be done, You just need to step forward and be counted. Spirit, then, can do the rest.