Monthly Archives: August 2010

One Man’s Truth – Continued

I cannot imagine the chaos if every government in the world said, “Speak your own truth.” In the world of Spirit, one does exactly that: speak one’s own truth. One cannot lie. But there is never anything negative spoken because there are no spoken words. All communication is done via thought and on a different level altogether from the earth plane. We have no emotional body when we die, nor is there a Self. It is the Self that creates the drama in conversations and which causes all of the problems. It is only after many years of being a drama queen, finally moving away from it, and seeing it as a waste of energy, that I can see how dramatic I was and how the Self manipulated that drama, even to the fact of telling lies to get its own way.

To be honest, I have difficulty imagining a world where there is no Self, or drama, or emotional body. I told Maitreya once that it must be very boring and dull, and he laughed at me. He told me that it is far from that and that one day I will see for myself. I am really looking forward to that day! Maitreya told me that one cannot lie after one has passed over, and that many of those who pass over find it very difficult to be stripped of that ability. It is only then that they can truly see themselves as they are without the outer layers of emotions that contribute to our life on the earth plane.

I know without a doubt that there is a ruling force, whether you call it God or something else. How else can I know what I know when I do readings? I go to the very core of the person and reveal things to the people I see that I could never have known. One woman told me that I knew her better than she knew herself! A man told me that he was skeptical of intuitive readings until he had his reading. He did not know what to do after having it.

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So, if there is not a correct truth, what is true? It is what we see as our truth, which can be very confusing to be honest. Imagine the courtroom banter: “Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?” You swear to do that and you are honest about it, but it is your truth. The other party may see it as completely different. After all, it is not their truth.

I often say that we hear what we want to hear, and often we do not hear or see what others see. I remember in the beginning of my channeling with Sister (when I was conscious channeling), that Sister would channel through me to my ex-husband. I was not there – she was doing the talking – but I could hear the gist of what was being said. Although I could not hear all of it, I could hear what was important. When I came out of the channeling, my ex-husband would tell me what had been said, and it shocked me to find that he had taken the whole message out of context that he had just been given. In fact, what I had heard spoken with love through me, he had not only taken as a scolding, but he also misconstrued the message. I never told him because I was told in the beginning of my channeling work never to change what I was given. I was the messenger only; nothing more. I was to give the message; nothing more. What a person did with it was their concern.

Is anyone correct? I do not believe so, because of what has been said. However, I will try as hard as I can for the rest of my life to be honest and tell my truth! It really puts a whole new aspect on the subject of truth if one looks at it like that.

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One Man’s Truth – Continued

Only when we realize that we are all different can we begin to understand each other and to let go of the way we do things now and truly be understanding of each other. Astrology enabled me to see that fact. As I began studying the charts of friends and family many years ago, I came to see the individuality of each person. It was awe-inspiring to see that there is nobody in the world like me. I am unique. Even if they cloned me, they would not have another me – yes, in physical body, but not in the spiritual being. It would look like me but would not be me because it would be born at a different time. Because of the way the natal chart is constructed, it could even be born on October 19th, at 5:31 am in Nottingham, England – which is when and where I was born – but it cannot be born in 1946, so it would have a different astrological makeup. Its chart would not be the same as mine. Nobody has a chart the same as mine. More than anything, after years of doing study on twins, triplets, and other multiple-birth families, even these people are different from each other.

They can replicate me all they want to, but no one can have the same birth information as me which, of course, makes the personality and the other features of the chart totally different. Because of that difference, our belief systems would also be totally different. Of course, if you are a Libra you will have a group affinity to Libran energy and find that you have a lot of similarity to Librans. Still, your core belief system will be different in some way because this is created by the time and place you were born. One can also exhibit more of the Ascendant sign one was born under. I am a double Libra – so very Libran – but Alan actually shows more of his Scorpio Ascendant energy than his Libran energy!

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It is so hard trying not to influence anyone and allow people to make their own decisions. Alan and I are very alike – born two days apart, both Libras. Our lives mirror for each other in all we have done with our lives despite Alan being 9 years younger than me. I would say that 80% of our lives are lived believing in the same things, but there is a 20% part of us which is very different in what we believe in and the way we deal with it. Thankfully, most of the time we are OK with that, but sometimes we do not agree and beg to disagree! I have learned from Maitreya and from being with Alan that, the more I try to change him to my belief, the harder he fights.

Oh, if only parents could see that this is a very important factor in raising children – especially teenagers. I must say here though that, when my children were teenagers, I did not interfere with their belief system in anything. My son became a Christian despite my being metaphysical. I never interfered with his doing this, and despite the fact that he tried to influence me to go back to the church, I never influenced or criticized him in any way to give up his beliefs. Eventually he, like most people, moved on to another truth – away from Christianity – but he did it on his own without influence from me or anyone else for that matter.

Parents are the worst people for interfering. As an astrologer, I know that each person is here to work out their own life path. Nobody can be the same – even twins, triplets, quads, etc. Although they have the same chart (often an identical one), they are so different from each other, both of them being different personalities and with different ways of learning their life lessons.

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It is strange how we do this. We find something we like and then spend most of our time trying to make others like it too. If they do not like it we condemn them, criticize them, or turn away from them. Maitreya has said many times that, if we took the energy we spend in doing this and used it for ourselves, how much more we could manifest for ourselves. However, we continue to try to change people and to get them to think our way.

Imagine a world where there was no derision of belief and everyone was allowed to be the way they wanted to be. We would not know to criticize, turn away etc. How much better the world would be! For centuries this has been going on, but we have not been able to see it. I truly believe that we are beginning to see it these days, and are realizing that we are doing it.

I had lunch today with two very dear friends, and we were discussing what we did to force our belief systems on another. It was quite humorous listening to each other and, of course, what we used to be like but no longer are. It is the way of the world, and we could all see that it has not changed one iota for all those centuries mentioned earlier.

My granddaughter was on Skype the other day discussing a film she wanted to see, but her friends at school had panned it. I told her to make her own decision about it, so she chose to go and see it. Afterwards, I asked her what she thought of it, and she said she loved it. I told her that she would have missed out on a good movie had she listened to her friends and from now on to make her own decision over things. Hopefully, she will do that and not go into the old way again of listening to everyone except herself!

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