Message from Maitreya:
What is love? I have written about this before on this website, but it was of one person’s love for another. But what of a person who loves you, and even more so, if you do not feel any connection to that soul? This happens every earth day to many, many souls.
One thinks that, because one has no recollection or feeling or emotion, that there is nothing there to deal with. However, one thing must be understood. All souls have returned to deal with past-life energy. However, for some souls on the receiving end of this attention, they have worked this energy out before they came into their lives – perhaps in other incarnations or prior to meeting the soul they have feelings for. The person of course, has the most amazing feelings for the one they are communicating with, in some cases falling head over heels for them, acting silly and doing silly things, and not knowing why they do it as well. The other person cannot feel anything, and has no feeling or recollection of anything. It can be very frustrating for the soul involved.
Usually the lesson is to just be in the energy and then move on, perhaps to repay a karmic debt or to help a soul. But it is all past life related. The one doing the pursuing is positive in feeling that something is there – they have SUCH feelings – yet there is no response from the other person. Often, the lesson is for the one making the overtures to learn to love unconditionally and to detach from the situation. If the other person responded, they may not learn that lesson. This is why they chose their part in the equation BEFORE the connection took place.
It is all about the lesson, not the person. One cannot love unconditionally if one is holding onto intense emotion from a previous encounter, for that is need. True love is gentle, does not demand, does not want revenge, is not angry, can walk away without pain – and most of all – is totally unconditional. Through the soul they are interacting with having no feelings whatsoever, the lesson often can be learned a lot quicker and easier. If not, the energy would just continue to repeat itself with no progress made. Such is past-life energy; such is the Self who tries so hard to pull you back into that old energy. It IS energy, nothing more. Once one soul has dealt with it, it is no more; it is gone.
Do not despair because the one you love does not respond the same as you. Just know that soul is giving you an opportunity to remove the energy from your soul so that you may move on also. Do not allow the Self to pull you back with emotion and fear. Detach and see the purpose of the experience.